It’s no doubt that women today contrary to past years hold a lot more power in the household. What I’m noticing now is women not only holding the weight in the home but in the relationship and more so in having the upper hand in the dating arena by choosing the guy instead of the guy choosing her. It’s not even a big surprise today as it would have been in past years to have a woman propose to a guy. Now I’m all for female empowerment and believe roles should be equal between the sexes in most situations even in relationships to a certain extent. But the question I have is do you think the reason women are taking on a more dominant role in the relationship is due to frustration with waiting for men to make the first move?, or Women just becoming more powerful over the years in various areas and taking on previously male-dominated positions and feeling more comfortable with going after a guy rather than waiting for him to come to her? Or is it maybe due to a combination of both?
Due to this change for women who still believe they should be asked out by guys instead of the other way around, do you think more aggressive women are making it harder for these type of women? Could aggressive women also be the reason a lot of men don’t feel the need to ask a girl out anymore and feel a woman should be the one to ask them out if she’s interested? The world is changing but I think we have to ask ourselves is it changing for the better?, How do we feel personally about this change and how has it been affecting us?
There are definitely a lot more women who are single today than there were about 10 years ago and it’s interesting to note or to consider whether or not the change in the female approach to dating is partly the reason for that. Does being more aggressive with men actually hurt women or is it the way we have to be with men who are not willing to commit to a serious relationship, and family? Or could this be partly the reason for our high divorce rate? Of course I’m not blaming All divorces on women! But I am questioning as to whether forcing a man to grow up faster than he’s ready to and take on something serious could be a factor in a lot of relationships going downhill. On the other hand could aggressive women be the answer to the prayers of super shy men who are afraid to approach women?
Let me know what you think about Aggressive Women!!